If you don’t want cake, have a FLOWER CAKE! Then have real cupcakes, mini cheesecakes or mini pies for the guests! Many places like Libraries, Zoos, Gardens, Art Galleries can be great places that show what your interests are & can cost less than other venues. Buffet style catering is less costly than sit down style but if you have a place that you can provide the food, make it a Potluck where everyone brings a dish! This gives your friends & family a real sense of being a part of your special day!